well, since the server forces me back to the spawn whenever i do something as little as die, i was lost because i ended up trying to use an elytra in survival mode. i talked to one of the members and accidentally talked about a server instead of a HOME. i corrected myself, but as he, a person who was in the home that I was in while i described what the home looked like still stood by slamming it in my face that he would report me for "talking about other servers." eventually, he told me "excuse me, but the person you have been talking to has lost all of his brain cells. please bother somebody else." i stopped responding. that didn't really help. so, crossing out the option of asking somebody in-game about the name of the HOME, how do i find the HOME that i was in?